"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe
This week I'm gonna give ya the top six songs on my ultimate confidence playlist. Music is totally powerful - it can express how you're feeling, and pick you up when you're feeling down. These songs are all about making you feel absolutely Fab. So grab some headphones and turn up the volume!
1. "Don't Stop Believin' " - Glee Cast Sing this one at the top of your lungs and you'll feel better in an instant. Promise.
2. "Single Ladies" - Beyonce Whether you have a BF or not, this one's a good reminder that you deserve to be respected for the FG you are.
3. "Into the Rush" - Aly & AJ An oldie but goodie. This one always reminds me you can jump into any challenge.
4. "Believe in Me" - Demi Lovato The ultimate confidence song. The title says it all.
5. "Change" - Taylor Swift Taylor has had an amazing year - she knows all about how things can change for the better.
6. "Make Some Noise" - Hannah Montana Hannah's music has always been about confidence and being true to yourself. She may just be another side of Miley, but her music is so FG.
So FGs, what would be on your confidence playlists? What artists and songs make you feel totally Fab? Give me a comment to share your thoughts.
I don't know how many of you know about "Sasha Fierce." I guess I have just been really into celebrity gossip lately. Anyways, Sasha Fierce is basically Beyonce's alter ego - the part of her that she taps into when she's performing. Apparently, the real Beyonce is more shy and reserved, so being Sasha helps her be confident and sassy when she's strutting her stuff in glamorous get-ups on stage.
I think some people's first reaction is, Wow, I didn't know Beyonce was crazy! But I definitely don't think she is. In fact, I think it's kind of a cool idea. I imagine we all have different sides to us, or at least ways we wish we could be if we weren't too shy or too scared or feeling so trapped in how we are "supposed" to act. Sometimes, it's no big deal (or maybe even better) to stay toned down or hold back in a certain situation. But it can also be really cool, and incredibly liberating to be that other side of you, let go of your reservations, and try some ting new.
FG Challenge: Next time you're feeling stuck on a problem, try walking in your Sasha shoes. Listen to those "If only..." statements, and imagine how you might be able to handle the situation differently than you usually would. If you're having trouble tapping into that other side, try envisioning what one of your heroes would do if they were standing in your flip-flops. Like, What would my mom do right now? or What would Tyra Banks say in this situation? Of course, your decision is ultimately your own, but sometimes it helps to see things from another side.
xoxo
The Fab Gal
PS - This video is totally my favorite now - Beyonce says Sasha sings this one!
