"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe
So I don't know where your adventures are taking you this year, but I am sure most of you have started school by now, or will be soon. I know what you're thinking - school is not an adventure. But it most definitely can be, even if you're at the same school as last year. Whatever you do, I am sure you will end up meeting some new people. I think it can be one of the most difficult things - especially in a new situation - to figure out how to make conversation and leave a good impression. I am still trying to figure that one out! But here are my tips to help you a little when you're stuck, and I'm sure you've got some you can share too...
Show Interest - Even if you are a shy gal, and the other person is a big talker, it's okay. Just show that you are an attentive listener - even just smiling, nodding, or saying "okay," or "cool!" (when appropriate) shows that you care what they are saying, so they don't take your shyness for aloofness.
Have Background Info - If you are in an interview or some other formal situation, it's good to know what you are talking about! Look over information about the club or business so you can talk, but also so you know if you have questions (a great way to keep the convo moving!).
Just Talk - If things feel weird or awkward, don't freak - there is always some level of weirdness when you're talking to someone for the first time. Try to think of something to say, if you can - even if it's just about the latest episode of your fave reality show or something funny that happened to you that day. You might be surprised what you have in common!
Compliments Work - People love to feel good, so if you need a way to start up a convo, compliment someone, even if it's just a "Hey, great shoes!" It makes them feel special, and it gives you somewhere to start. But be genuine - people can usually tell when you're being fake.
Be Yourself! - I hate when people say this, but it is so true. Sure, being yourself means that not everyone is going to love you. That's just the cold truth. But if you just relax and be natural, you won't feel like you need to keep up an appearance, and you will certainly stand out from the crowd.
How about you, Fab Gals? What do you do or say when you're meeting new people? Leave a comment to share (there are instructions on the side if you don't know how!).
