"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe
Yesterday, when I was out shopping, I just had to pick up a mag with Britney Spears on the cover. I try not to be too celeb-addicted, but at least it wasn't a trashy tabloid. I was just so excited to see her looking happy and healthy after all of the press that was out about her struggles the past year or so. Struggles that were well-documented b the paparazzi, waiting to see what she would do next. In fact, her music got very little attention compared to her personal life. It makes me wonder - why do we give more attention to people with drama?
One FG was telling me recently about what it had been like starting a new school this year. While it was mostly going really well, she said she felt like she got a lot less attention than the girls who caused all the drama. They were often fighting with their friends, or having an issue with some guy - and people wanted to know about it, talk to them, and be in on the action. Obviously not the same as what went on with Britney Spears, but think how little news coverage other stars, like Christina Aguilera or Reese Witherspoon, received in comparison for their highly successful careers but relatively normal lives.
I'm not exactly sure how or why things work out this way. I guess we just want a story - we want juicy gossip, we want excitement. But it certainly puts our values in the wrong place. It's almost like it's better to be a little wild child or drama queen so you can be noticed. But it's not worth it, and it won't make you feel happy with yourself. The good news is this - if you work hard at your talents, embrace your unique abilities, and choose to lead a life without drama, people will eventually notice. Take Beyoncé, America Ferrara, or Ashley Tisdale for example. Believe me, the respect and positive attention is totally worth the wait.
