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Wednesday, March 18, 2009 |
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| Let's Not Go There |
Hello Fab Gals!
I was searching around online the other day and I picked up on this article by Meghan McCain:
Quit Talking About About My Weight
In case you don't know, Meghan is the daughter of John McCain, a former candidate for president. After speaking out about her opinion on some political issues in the Republican Party, another woman, Laura Ingraham, snapped back, including some comments about Meghan's weight. But that just seemed so... icky. I guess we come to expect that kind of talk about celebrities, but it seems like when grown-up women are talking politics, it is so strange.
I think it just highlights how desensitized "fat talk" becomes, like anyone's weight is fair game. It gets to the place where we make being skinny equal to being beautiful, popular, or smart. And that's not good. I think it's even harder, when you're just a regular girl, and you see women who are rich, talented, smart, and on top of all that, gorgeous, getting torn down for their weight.
Anyways, where am I going with all of this? Well, I guess what I wanted to say is that I don't like where this story shows we might be going. And I'm guessing I'm not the only one. And the only place to start is with yourself. Learn to accept and take care of your own beauty, body, and soul. That's the only way we can become more aware - positivity is infectious. It's time we step up and be the FGs we know we are. Because we are all worth it.
xoxo
The Fab GalLabels: body image, media, Meghan McCain, respect, self esteem |
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Friday, December 5, 2008 |
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| Hey, Pay Attention to Me! |
Hey there FGs!
Yesterday, when I was out shopping, I just had to pick up a mag with Britney Spears on the cover. I try not to be too celeb-addicted, but at least it wasn't a trashy tabloid. I was just so excited to see her looking happy and healthy after all of the press that was out about her struggles the past year or so. Struggles that were well-documented b the paparazzi, waiting to see what she would do next. In fact, her music got very little attention compared to her personal life. It makes me wonder - why do we give more attention to people with drama?
One FG was telling me recently about what it had been like starting a new school this year. While it was mostly going really well, she said she felt like she got a lot less attention than the girls who caused all the drama. They were often fighting with their friends, or having an issue with some guy - and people wanted to know about it, talk to them, and be in on the action. Obviously not the same as what went on with Britney Spears, but think how little news coverage other stars, like Christina Aguilera or Reese Witherspoon, received in comparison for their highly successful careers but relatively normal lives.
I'm not exactly sure how or why things work out this way. I guess we just want a story - we want juicy gossip, we want excitement. But it certainly puts our values in the wrong place. It's almost like it's better to be a little wild child or drama queen so you can be noticed. But it's not worth it, and it won't make you feel happy with yourself. The good news is this - if you work hard at your talents, embrace your unique abilities, and choose to lead a life without drama, people will eventually notice. Take Beyoncé, America Ferrara, or Ashley Tisdale for example. Believe me, the respect and positive attention is totally worth the wait.
xoxo
The Fab GalLabels: attention, celebrity gossip, Don't Sweat the Small Stuff for Teens, drama, fab gal, girls, media, respect |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 8:41 AM |
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Monday, September 29, 2008 |
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| You Know What to Do |
Hello Fab Gals!
So I was reading for my homework this weekend, and there was this article that talked about "integrity." Okay, so I know you probably don't want to talk about homework, I don't either. But I promise - this actually does fit with you.
You'll hear people use that word a lot - integrity - when they are talking about what kind of person someone is (and when they want to sound smart). As in, "Oprah is a woman of integrity." Integrity means that you a person with values, and you consistently act upon them. But another definition is "the state of being whole, entire, or undiminished." You are a whole person, a whole you.
So anyways, here is my point: being an FG isn't so much about about being right or knowing what the right thing to do is, but it's about action. It's not being perfect, but it's being the whole person that you are, and showing respect for yourself and others through what you do. It's standing up for your best friend even when she's not around. It's deciding not to cheat on the test, even if it means taking a bad grade. And it's being strong enough to not just go along with something just because everybody else is doing it.
This "integrity" stuff isn't that easy. Even when we know what's right in our hearts, it's not always easy to work up the courage to act on it. It can be especially hard to do when your choice isn't the popular one. But in the end, it's always better to go with what you know you need to do. People will understand, and if they don't, then that's a good sign they aren't worth your time. Life's what you make it, right? Be smart about your choices, and use that integrity - you deserve it. That's what I learned this weekend.
xoxo
The Fab Gal
“The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.” – Coco ChanelLabels: decisions, fab gal, integrity, respect |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 8:58 AM |
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Wednesday, August 13, 2008 |
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| Doin it Audrey-Style |
Hey Fab Gals!
Have you ever watched Breakfast at Tiffany's? It's an oldie, but you definitely have to see it. The movie is good, but I just love watching Audrey Hepburn. She just has that something, a level of class and style that doesn't always happen with celebs anymore. Anyways, I've been reading this book - What Would Audrey Do? - to try and master some of that Audrey grace. While I don't want to be her exactly, there are definitely some pieces of Audrey-like behavior that us 21st century Fab Gals could use: - Technology - We FGs now quite a bit about the ins and outs of texting and social sites. Of course, Audrey did not the chance to make a Facebook, but I know she would have been careful with hers. Adding a billion friends you don't know, and airing out you dirty laundry in nasty notes or embarrassing photos... not very classy. Not everyone needs to know everything about you, nor should you let them.
- Boys - Well, the book said Audrey would never ask out a boy. While I think that rule is definitely worth breaking, but you should still uphold some Audrey standards. You should uphold your standards for how you are treated, but don't put so much pressure on the situation. You're Fab - you don't need a guy to prove it.
- Style - Audrey had the most amazing style. Ever. She was tasteful, but totally unique, and people are still trying to emulate her. Do what works for you. Maybe designers will be watching you one day.
- Manners - While I never met her, it is clear that Audrey could make an impression ( a good one). Everyone loved her, and I think it had to do with respect. No matter where life takes you, treat everyone like they matter, because they do. Listen when people talk, be polite, show you care - you won't be forgotten.
- Goals - Big dreamers we are, us Fab Gals. Audrey certainly had good luck, but she also relied on humility and hard work. Be confident enough to know you can get what you want, but be humble enough to remember hard work and where you came from. Roots and wings (that's what my mom says, but Audrey would agree I'm sure).
So go watch Breakfast at Tiffany's, then put that Audrey class to work! xoxo The Fab Gal Labels: Audrey Hepburn, class, fab gal, respect, style |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 8:17 AM |
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