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Tuesday, August 25, 2009 |
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| Do You Believe in Magic? |
Hello FGs!
Sometimes, I wish I had magic. You know, like Alex Russo or Sabrina the Teenage Witch. Sounds crazy, I know. But think about it - then, whenever I got a little off track, I c ould think of a spell, wave my wand, and Bam! Problem solved. Bad hair days, gone. Embarrassing moments, none. And hey, while I was at it, I'd have no homework, a new wardrobe, and Prince Charming in aviators at my doorstep.
And don't get me wrong - I wouldn't be selfish with it. If a friend needed me, I would be there in a second. I mean, witches and wizards don't have to worry about travel time, right? Yep, it seems like my life would be pretty darn perfect.
But no matter how hard I wish (and I've been doing that a lot lately), magic isn't something I am going to have. What I can have, though, is choices. I have the choice to forgive my mistakes, learn my lessons, and move on. I have to choice to not let disappointments get me down for too long. I have the choice to make changes, try new things, or keep everything just the same. It's not perfect, but it's real. And it's exciting. Because one thing I know for sure is this: If you stop wishing for perfection, magic in life does happen, in pretty amazing ways. And that's worth the wait.
xoxo
The Fab GalLabels: advice, fab gal, girls, life lessons, magic, teens |
posted by Fab Gal @ 8:10 PM   |
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Tuesday, August 18, 2009 |
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| This Could Be OUR Year |
Hey Fab Gals!
So, I know I have been MIA for the last week. I just have a major amount of stuff to get ready before its time to hit the books again. Yep, it's time to ring in the new (school) year. Going back to school can be a lot of things. Stressful. Exciting. Busy. Or maybe you're totally dreading the end of the lazy summer days.
Secretly, I have always kind of loved going back to school. It just seemed like there are so many possibilities - new friends, new adventures, new clothes, new crushes. Then, by about half way through the year, I am usually sick of school all over again.
And it's true, there's a lot of not-so-great parts about school. Loads of homework. Earlier curfew. Blah Mondays. Lunch room drama. Yikes. You just never know when a book report or hallway rumor is going to come around and hit you in the face. But then, you never really know when something great is going to happen either.
Okay, so I'm really not trying to be a total bummer. What I'm trying to say is this: Sure, school can be totally lame. But you can't just overlook all of the great parts about it, like seeing your friends, playing your fave sports, and becoming an even more Fab version of you. You just never know what kinds of great things will happen by time the last bell rings. So don't forget to enjoy it.
xoxo
The Fab Gal
PS - Check out these fun sites:
GL's Ultimate Countdown to Class
Seventeen Back-to-School BlowoutLabels: fab gal, happiness, school |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 9:21 PM |
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Saturday, August 8, 2009 |
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| Broken Up, But Not Broken |
Hello FGs!
Okay, so maybe I can't tell you which guys are the good guys and which ones are the bad boys, or if it even matters anyway. But I do know this much: When it comes to break-ups, they always hurt, no matter what kind of guy it is. You've probably heard lots of heartbreak remedies: double chocolate-chocolate chip ice cream, burning the memories, GNOs, and lots of tears. All of those things might work for a bit. But I want to give you a few new ideas, that just might get you through a little bit easier... and maybe with a few less regrets.
- Let the Music Play. Music has amazing powers. Maybe even more so than chocolate. You can always find a song that fits what you're feeling. It's an amazing thing to hear Taylor (or Miley or Ashley or whoever you love) sing your heart out. So find some tunes, close the door, and just listen.
- Keep Your Distance. After a big breakup or nasty fight, you can be fuming with things to say to that nasty so-and-so. But before you hit "send" or go banging down his door, wait. It probably won't help, and you need to give both of you a chance to clear your head. So hold onto those thoughts for a week. Then you'll know what you really want to say.
- Put Out the Fire. You've heard "Picture to Burn," right? Well, that can sound like a totally awesome and rebellious way to get him out of your system, fast. Pictures, lovey-dovey notes, his old sweatshirt... you want it all gone, and fast. But please, do this for me: hold onto a couple of those souvenirs. Someday, way, way down the road, you just might miss having a few memories from that someone who once meant a lot.
- Do it Your Way. Everyone has their own way of dealing with tough stuff. Some people like to journal, write songs, run, talk with friends, or spend some time alone. Or maybe even all of the above. Whatever works for you, do it. Give yourself time (and permission) to scream, cry, think and feel whatever you need to feel. It really will help you move on in the end.
- And, like always, Love Yourself. Break-ups suck. But don't ever beat yourself up for it, no matter what anyone says or does. Be thankful for the experience. When you're ready, life will move on with you. No matter how broken up you feel now, it really will be alright.
I mean, come on, you're a Fab Gal! So, FGs, I want to know - how do you deal with break-ups? What advice would you give to a friend going through one? Leave a comment to share your FG tips! xoxo The Fab Gal Labels: advice, boys, breakups, dating, fab gal, relationships, teens |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 8:42 PM |
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Wednesday, August 5, 2009 |
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| Nice Guys Finish Last |
Hey FGs!
So I was reading this interview with Robert Pattinson about Twilight and dating, and he said this: "With virtually anyone, the nice guys always seem to finish last." He also said that if Edward was a real person, he'd probably be like an axe murderer or something (?!?). Now, while that last statement is certainly a cause for question, I'm not even gonna go there.
But then, I was watching the new episode of "10 Things I Hate About You" (my new fave!) and Bianca was once again totally clueless as to how much Cameron, her nice-guy BGF is in love with her, while she has to resist the charm of the dumb, wannabe-model football player. And I was thinking, Oh Bianca, if you only knew! Girls would be all over Cameron. You know, if he was a real person. But then I thought, maybe not. Maybe R. Pattz is right. Could it be true that, when it comes to dating, nice guys lose out?
I would hate to think that that's true. I mean, considering so many girls worry that guys pass up good girls for superficial reasons, it would totally suck to think that we almost do the same thing. I mean, bad boys and flirty fellas are fun, for sure. But girls are smart enough to know what's right?
So I don't know if it's really true or not. Maybe it is sometimes. I think we girls like who we like, and sometimes it's a this type of guy and sometimes it's someone else. But the most important thing is this: Know when a guy isn't nice enough (aka treats you right) to be worth your time. Because there is someone out there who will treat you right. Whether he fits the "nice guy" bill or not.
xoxo
The Fab GalLabels: advice, boys, dating, fab gal, relationships, teens |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 12:05 PM |
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Sunday, August 2, 2009 |
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| Here We Go Again |
Hello Fab Gals!
So, a new school year is almost here. Just a few weeks, or maybe even a few days (yikes!) away for some of us. Now, you may not be at all excited for homework and early mornings, but there are ways to make the transition a little bit easier (and more fun, too).
- Get organized. By the end of the year, when it's time to clean out lockers, you're probably doing the "Huh, so that's where that went!" Okay. But starting out with a clean slate makes at least the first few weeks a little easier and stress-free. So clean out your folders, recycle all those old papers, and get ready to go.
- Make it you. Some classes are a total snooze. There's not much magic you can pull to change that. But you can always liven up your stuff. Pull out Sharpies and stickers, make a collage, and decorate your binders and book covers. Your math notebook suddenly got a lot prettier.
- Sleepover! I just love sleepovers, and any reason to have one is good with me. But especially if you and your buds have been far apart over the summer, now is so the time. You'll have a lot to catch up on before the bell rings. Plus, who better to give you input on your first day outfit?
- And, as always, have fun. The first day is tomorrow, whether you like it or not, so use your last day how you want. Give yourself a mani and a new 'do, hit the pool one last time, or just lounge around and do nothing at all.
It's a shame to see summer go, but the school year's got it's bright spots, too. So enjoy the last of summer, and get ready to shine in the new year. I'll be here with ya for the whole thing. xoxo The Fab Gal Labels: advice, fab gal, fun ideas, girls, school, teens |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 12:08 PM |
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