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Sunday, January 8, 2012 |
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| Hello, Future! |
Happy New Year, Fab Gals! 2012 is still brand new, so it’s that time when everyone is hopeful – makin  g resolutions and looking forward to the possibilities of the New Year. It’s also that time for me (and maybe you!) when graduation is just a few months away. Sure, graduation is an ending, and reflecting about all that’s changed since you stepped through those school doors for the first time. But even more, graduation is about making big decisions for the future. What do you want to do with your life? Where will you go to college? Or maybe, who do you wanna be when you step into the halls of middle school? The questions and uncertainty are enough to make the future seem a little frightening. When the future seems frightening, it’s easy to just push it away, focus on the now, ignore the what-ifs, and play it safe. That's what I've been doing, anyway. But of course, that’s not really dealing. No matter what you do (or don’t do) the future is always coming, one minute at a time. Thankfully for me, I have someone who always puts things in perspective. My dad reminded me that what matters most is thinking not just about the right now, but where you want to be in the future – whether that’s 1 year, 4 years, or 10 years. Because c’mon, you have big dreams, right? But the only way to get there is by pulling them out of the clouds and starting to work towards them right now, not some day in the future once this or that happens. I don’t want you or me to sell ourselves and our Fab-ness short by squishing down life into what fits in the present. So I’m starting to make goals for the new year… including a few I hope to share with you. But what are your hopes, FG? How are you moving forward in 2012? Share in the comments below… and know I’m cheering you on every step of the way. xoxo The Fab Gal Cruising ahead in 2012 ;) Labels: 2012, advice, fab gal, future, girls, goals, new year, self esteem, teens |
posted by Fab Gal @ 8:25 PM   |
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Wednesday, December 31, 2008 |
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| Happy New Year! |
Hey Fab Gals!
New Year's Eve is today! Can you believe that? It's almost 2009. This is probably my favorite holiday - there's something exciting about having a whole new year ahead of you, like a blank page. Of course, that new beginning inspires a lot of people to make a resolution.
Are you making a resolution for the new year? I have mixed feelings about hem. I mean, it seems like people expect them to be broken, so it's almost like they don't mean anything. And it seems like "losing weight" is always the #1 resolution. I was just watching the news, and they were talking about how to get "Flat Abs for the New Year." I certainly think making a resolution to work out more or eat more healthy food is wonderful. But seriously, are flat abs really the most important goal for 2009?
Then again, it is nice to have some direction, some goal for the new year. And if you have something you really want to get done, then by all means, go for it! But the cool thing is, even if you don't have a resolution, if you keep moving forward, things will change anyway. I have long since forgotten what my New Year's Resolution was last year, if I had one. But when I look back on the past year, so much changed - I started a new website, went to a new school, got a new hairdo, made new friends - and a million other tings that I couldn't have imagined or expected on January 1st.
So I haven't totally decided if I want to make a resolution. I still have 14 hours. But maybe I'll just create a good motto, or find a theme song. Or I might just go into the year completely resolution-free. Because even if you don't know what's going to happen, if you stay open to change and true to yourself, it will be a good adventure. Promise.
xoxo...and a Happy New Year!
The Fab Gal Labels: change, fab gal, goals, new year, resolutions |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 9:51 AM |
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Monday, August 11, 2008 |
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| Queen of the Busy Bees |
Bonjour Fab Gals!
I just want to say I am sorry I haven't made all of the updates (yet) that I was hoping to do by summer's end. I promise, I have some big plans for The Fab Gal! I have been at a 3-week camp, and it has been absolute craziness! I won't go through all the details right now. But this being my last week of camp, I wanted to use today to tell you all about something I learned, and the wonderful insight I have gained from my stay.
The thing is, I have been too busy to even think of what that might be!
Seriously, I have not had time available to think. I haven't sat down to write since I have been here, really, between roller skating and class and swing dancing, and all the spontaneous plans in between. I pretty much have been running on 5 hours a night and lots of Diet Coke.
Anyways, it's been a really good thing for me, I think. It's like that John Lennon quote, "Life is what happens while you're busy making other plans." Life has definitely been happening, no matter what my original plans were. And sometimes, it really is better to just be, you know? I live with my head in the clouds a lot. But it can be smart (if not a little scary) to stop thinking and wishing and learning and waiting, and just do. Even if you don't know exactly what it is you're doing, or where you're going, or what's coming next.
Keep that in mind Fab Gals, wherever you're at this new year. It seems like we always make school about organization and plans. Of course, those are good things. But it's cool to just throw yourself into a new situation, whenever you can. The people you'll meet and the experiences you'll have are what really make up your story. Who doesn't want some adventure?
xoxo
The Fab GalLabels: breaking plans, fab gal, new experiences, new year, self-confidence |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 8:15 AM |
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Wednesday, August 6, 2008 |
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| Happy New School Year! |
Greetings Fab Gals!
It's always hard, those last few weeks when summer is nearing it's end. No more swimming, sleeping in, spontaneous plans. In it's place comes homework, yucky food, and, ugh - the alarm clock. It's rough. But c'mon, admit it - there is always some excitement at the beginning of the year. It feels all new, especially when you're going to a new school (that's the case for me!). So here's some good goals for a fresh start:
- Eat Lunch with a New Crowd - School lunch is lame. But you know what else is lame? Sitting in one place everyday. This is your chance to mix and mingle with new people. You might be scared, but others are probably more scared than you. So go for it, at least once a week.
- Get a Study Buddy - If you need it, don't procrastinate. Maybe math's not your thing. No biggie. Just don't put it off - teacher's want to help, but it's harder to pick up the pieces than to just get help in the first place.
- Try Something New - Sign up for that activity or club you've always wanted to try. It may be hard, but it will be worth it. Even if it doesn't turn out to be what you expected, you'll at least meet new people and have the experience.
- Make "Me" Time - When the school year starts, it's hard to find time to get everything done. But you need to have some balance. Keep time to exercise, get good sleep, and watch your fave show. You body (and your spirit) will be glad you did.
- Have Fun! - With all of these goals, or whatver you want to do this year, enjoy it! Celebrate your successes, or just celebrate your life. Give yourself room to be surprised and have fun, because that's what it's all about.
What are you hoping to do this school year, Fab Gals? What's your fave thing about going back to school? Leave a comment to let me know! xoxo The Fab Gal Labels: fab gal, goals, new year, school |
| posted by Fab Gal @ 8:35 AM |
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