"I'm selfish, impatient and a little insecure. I make mistakes, I am out of control and at times hard to handle. But if you can't handle me at my worst, then you sure as hell don't deserve me at my best." - Marilyn Monroe
Like we talked about, there are so many choices a Fab Gal has to make everyday. Friends, activities, shoes... too much to think about. It can mess with your head sometimes. But don't stress. Here are some tips for when life requires a little more than "eenie-meenie-miney-moe."
Pros and Cons - It is always a good place to start. What's good about one choice? What about the other? What will you miss out on if you go this way? Making a list can help you start organizing your thoughts.
Talk it Out - Of course, your opinion is the one that matters most. But sometimes, it can be nice to have someone to talk things over with, be it a mom, brother, or friend. Sometimes just saying things out loud can make everything clear, and they may have some good points. But remember - you need to listen to your heart in the end.
Respect Yourself - You should never make a decision based on how you will seem to someone else. But you should consider the impression that you will make on yourself. If you know that making a choice will make you feel bad or won't match you and your beliefs, then there is no choice. It can be hard, but you always need to respect who you are.
Listen to your Gut - What feels like the right decision? Sometimes our intuition is trying to guide us in the right direction, we just don't always listen. If you have a good or bad feeling you can't explain, go with it. It's probably right.
Don't Worry - You are totally Fab, but you are not perfect. Sometimes we make mistakes. Things don't always turn out how we expect. That's okay. You've got a lot of life and a lot of choices ahead of you, so just learn from this one and move on.
Have you had to make any difficult decisions lately? What helped you get through them? Leave a comment to let your FGs know!
